I was just curious about how other bands felt outside of my area. I recently finished up a mini-tour and I felt like on some nights the local band on the bill was trying to position themselves in the best spot but I didn't say anything since I wasn't sure if this was a known "rule".
Your example of a record release show is definitely an exception. That's your night to be the center of attention without a doubt.
What's your band called, Doc?