Whoaaa. Seriously, did not mean to offend you guys, and I certainly do not have an "intense problem" or feel there is a "conspiracy." I very much appreciate your hard work with this site and your podcasts. So I do intensely apologize if I have put anyone in a "bulls eye" because that was not my intention. I have a very teasing, silly nature so my post was meant very tongue in cheek - of course I do not actually think Gringo Starr is a fascist. It is just in my nature to challenge authority, and like it or not, as moderators, you guys are the authority here so you will have to expect push back sometimes (I also hope at some point you will see that push back can be a healthy thing).
I can understand how you can often be in a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation with moderating. Perhaps there could be a more democratic, communal way of handling these situations so you won't have the pressure of being the bad guy? Some sites have ways for members to flag comments and posts so they will be removed after so many flags. I don't know what the solutions is, I just think it warrants further discussion amongst all the members which is why I didn't just email Kopper about it. I think it would be good for the group to talk about what type of posts they like or don't like.
My point about the caveman, cavewoman thing is that people often don't always analyze why they like something, they just feel it in their gut and want to share it which is probably why people often respond to discussions with videos, which is not the same thing as being a troll or an asshole, or even trying to play a game. I'm not saying it is good or bad, just what's been happening. Now that you have stated you want to raise the bar, you will need to he more descriptive about what your expectations are.
Anyhoo, I will qualify my earlier statement with, don't take me so seriously. Just take care and keep up your good work.