I know you said your remarks about Gringo were "tongue in cheek", but this has happened before. Gringo had to shut down two threads by the same member because they turned into an outright battle. So the member decides to publicly on here insult him because he was doing his job. How are any of us to know that what you posted wasn't serious?
Also, you said it was in your nature to "challenge authority". Look, we have enough to look into than a Hideout member willfully wanting to challenge us and push our buttons. I'm not trying to be a bully here, but if you think it's funny to do that, think again.
Alison said:
Whoaaa. Seriously, did not mean to offend you guys, and I certainly do not have an "intense problem" or feel there is a "conspiracy." I very much appreciate your hard work with this site and your podcasts. So I do intensely apologize if I have put anyone in a "bulls eye" because that was not my intention. I have a very teasing, silly nature so my post was meant very tongue in cheek - of course I do not actually think Gringo Starr is a fascist. It is just in my nature to challenge authority, and like it or not, as moderators, you guys are the authority here so you will have to expect push back sometimes (I also hope at some point you will see that push back can be a healthy thing).
I can understand how you can often be in a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation with moderating. Perhaps there could be a more democratic, communal way of handling these situations so you won't have the pressure of being the bad guy? Some sites have ways for members to flag comments and posts so they will be removed after so many flags. I don't know what the solutions is, I just think it warrants further discussion amongst all the members which is why I didn't just email Kopper about it. I think it would be good for the group to talk about what type of posts they like or don't like.
My point about the caveman, cavewoman thing is that people often don't always analyze why they like something, they just feel it in their gut and want to share it which is probably why people often respond to discussions with videos, which is not the same thing as being a troll or an asshole, or even trying to play a game. I'm not saying it is good or bad, just what's been happening. Now that you have stated you want to raise the bar, you will need to he more descriptive about what your expectations are.
Anyhoo, I will qualify my earlier statement with, don't take me so seriously. Just take care and keep up your good work.