On the band and musicians group there is a discussion on Apr 26 which says exactly what I am looking for:
People to start a band like the oblivians, gories, loli and the chones, first donnas.
Even the location is correct: Cambridge.
Wrong continent, cause I'm in Massachusetts.
Girls and guys in the Boston area call me (virtually, I mean write me)

No boston green-line punk hardcore style.

What can I play?
Nothing technically well.
I would like to play the drums. better if I can use the bikini voodoo drumset (snaredrum, floortom and one ride cymbal, standing)
I could sing but I don't want to because my voice isn't special and I have an accent.
I could sing backing vocals though.
We need a guitar or two, and or a keyboard/organ something. The bass in my experience is not really necessary.

See my profile to know more about me. Then write me to stop this miserable attitude I have, wishing to play but doing nothing to make it real, not even trying.

If you have suggestions on where to find people intrested, that would also be good.

after seeing the ettes and the heavy cream last night, with some really kick ass female drummers... I'm not sure if I should play anymore. I felt like I'm too old and unskilled. Being unskilled (read "suck at playing") is acceptable and in some cases even cool when you are young. Not when you are 30.